I came out to myself at 17 years old. A year later, after having sex w/a woman–thus legitimizing my identity–I came out to my family & friends. Between 17 & 42 years old, I dated. A lot. A lot a lot. But finally, at 43 years old, I married the woman w/whom I knew I wanted (& could) spend the rest of my life. I met Cyndi on Facebook Dating during the 2020 global pandemic. ZAMI NOBLA shares our story (& then some) here in their monthly podcast. 

Have a listen. Happy Pride.